what is so magical about "first love" ? even when you are with the wrong person?

What thought comes in your mind when you meet the perfect person and find one little fault in them? Yes you are great! but my first love... you can't be him/her.. why?? why do u think it was perfect when it was not? ever wondered? I think i know the answer.

"The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end.- Benjamin Disraeli". You never give up on your first love.

No matter what happens you always ignore the flaws and try making it work. Forgive everything and anything even when u can't take it. Of course there comes a point when you really can't take it and u break up. But that is not the point when you know you've tried enough and now you can't an neither can the person you are with.

You don't know how to manage a relationship in first love so you give it your best and try to change or like somethings you don't like about your love.. but when you are in another relationship you find faults very easily which u probably ignored in the first one.. because one relationship ended anyway who knows if this is gonna last..but with first love you believe..

One more thing.. why d oes the relationship last so long? Because u kept ignoring the flaws so long u keep getting to know each other and start bonding well. give this much time to the right person or the wrong person u will get to know everything about them. It is just that we give up easily on them and won't give them so much time.

Don't give up on anyone for the reasons you have. Love them for you should be the person to make a relationship last, and it requires a lot of effort. You choose between giving up or staying and making this relationship the right one.

What happened - Noor sofyan

I look into your eyes,
but see nothing there.
What happened to the love,
that we use to share?
I reach out for your hand,
and it feels so cold.
What happened to the warmth,
that it use to hold.
I never thought a love,
like ours would ever die.
I never thought you,
could ever make me cry.
It use to be so special,
like a dream come true.
You were the one for me,
and I was the one for you.
Now things have changed,
we've fallen apart.
You're not the same person,
that once touched my heart.
Don't say you need time,
cause time is all we had.
I'm tired of being hurt,
and feeling so sad.
There's nothing left to do,
but go our own way.
The question of "what happened"
will be answered some day.

Stupid for You

You grabbed my hand and told me you're not letting go.
Right here, right now, it's you and me.
Let everything around us disappear.
With every moment, you turn my horrible day around.
You say the cheesiest things that make me smile.
I thought love gave up on me, when it only took a break.
You look into my eyes with a thousand things running through your head.
Love drunk.
With your runaway smile, you're always in my heart.
Holding your hand makes me jittery.
I stopped searching for love and along you came.
What we have is deep.
I never want this feeling to fade.
What are these emotions that run through my veins.
Is it love?
'cause baby i'm falling stupid over you.

"Love is not Forever"

We fall in love with someone and it all seems so perfect, you couldn’t have wanted more from your relationship. But when it’s over... Why do you wonder if you were drunk the entire time when you were getting to know that person? I know how it feels like. I have been in a lot of complicated relationships myself. Not everyone knows what I am inside out, even the guys I dated. Why do you kill the love you have for someone after falling head over heels for them? Is there something called the spark? Or the one? I don’t know, I think it’s all about the image you create of the other person and how they can live up to it. Everyone says, do not expect. What is life when you stop expecting? Everyone expects, the problem is not everyone knows what exactly to expect from your loved ones. That understanding comes only after you know a person inside out, which takes a lot of patience, time and forgiveness… I made a mistake of getting into a relationship without even knowing if I wanted to be in one,. And when I realised, it was too late and my life was already messed up… You get into a relationship thinking yes, this is what I want… but when you know it’s not… You’ve already made one wrong choice. I know we can’t change what has happened… It had to happen to make me strong enough to become what I am today.
Today I know love won’t last for the people who won’t make an effort. Being with a person who is not you and being happy with that person takes a lot… If you love that person a little more each day, it will last. Or you will just be left with reasons on how and why your previous relationships did not last.