Sunday, August 21, 2011

what is so magical about "first love" ? even when you are with the wrong person?

What thought comes in your mind when you meet the perfect person and find one little fault in them? Yes you are great! but my first love... you can't be him/her.. why?? why do u think it was perfect when it was not? ever wondered? I think i know the answer.

"The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end.- Benjamin Disraeli". You never give up on your first love.

No matter what happens you always ignore the flaws and try making it work. Forgive everything and anything even when u can't take it. Of course there comes a point when you really can't take it and u break up. But that is not the point when you know you've tried enough and now you can't an neither can the person you are with.

You don't know how to manage a relationship in first love so you give it your best and try to change or like somethings you don't like about your love.. but when you are in another relationship you find faults very easily which u probably ignored in the first one.. because one relationship ended anyway who knows if this is gonna last..but with first love you believe..

One more thing.. why d oes the relationship last so long? Because u kept ignoring the flaws so long u keep getting to know each other and start bonding well. give this much time to the right person or the wrong person u will get to know everything about them. It is just that we give up easily on them and won't give them so much time.

Don't give up on anyone for the reasons you have. Love them for you should be the person to make a relationship last, and it requires a lot of effort. You choose between giving up or staying and making this relationship the right one.